My Experience with Imposter Syndrome — and How to (Partly) Overcome It

Seven stories of talented people held back by the fear they weren’t good enough.

This piece has stayed with me since I first read it. The writer describes a decade of high-achievement — competitive programs, awards, research roles — alongside a persistent, private conviction that every success was a fluke and that they were about to be found out.

What makes the account so useful for leaders is how concretely it traces the cost. Imposter syndrome didn’t only affect wellbeing; it shaped decisions. It led to overworking to compensate for imagined incompetence, over-hedging written work so no one could tell what the writer really thought, delaying feedback conversations, and — most significantly — declining opportunities rather than risking visible failure.

The turning point described is not a mindset trick. It is deliberate work: therapy focused on anxiety and perfectionism, examining how self-protective behaviours prevent us from ever gathering evidence that we belong, and noticing the double standard we apply to ourselves versus everyone else.

Why I share it: so many of the leaders I coach carry a version of this. They are competent, well-regarded, and quietly certain the regard is misplaced. Naming that pattern is often the first honest step.

Reflection questions

• Where has fear of being “found out” shaped a decision you made this year?

• What evidence of your own capability do you routinely explain away?

• Who in your team might be holding back for the same reason?

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